Lessons I learned from my past relationship

Aloha!

Sorry i haven’t been posting. For the past week I been sick and I also been working alot since avengers end game came out.

Ok so, even though I didn’t like my past relationship, I learned A LOT from it. Here is 4 lessons that I learned.

1. I now know my worth

My ex chose other girls over me a lot. He would protect them instead of me which made me irritated and mad. But looking back at it makes me think that I was worth way more then what he treated me but I was to blind. I should of ended it when I started to notice it first.

2. Im not a bad person

He would always call me a bitch every day and that I always start shit. Im not a bad person unless u treat me like it. He taught me treat others the way you want to be treated and he was an ass to me so I did it back to him and he didn’t like it.๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

3. Being honest

My ex was FAR from honesty. He always lied but he really believed in his own lies so he can make it where Im the bad person or someone else is. In other words he was manipulative. My friend told me that and I agreed. I never thought of it until he said that. Im always an honest person because I don’t want to end up like him. A liar.๐Ÿคฎ

4. Be you

My ex was always negative of me. He would always say things of what he didn’t like of me. To me if you significant other doesn’t appreciate who you are then fuck them and leave. You shouldn’t be someone your not with that person.

Those are the lessons that I learned from it. It makes me really picky of who I date. This is why Im still single. Its been 3 years since the break up.I am more happy being single then being in a relationship. But I really do hope I find my special someone. Maybe not today, tomorrow, next month, or even next year. I just know god is saving me for the right person. ๐Ÿ’•

Xoxo,

Cocochanel

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